okay he may be cute but will he eat your ass?
I was chatting with a man on FetLife and he told me he is a switch because he enjoys giving oral to a woman and it makes him less of a Dom. I’ve never held this believe. I know plenty of Doms who do , but I don’t want to make an assumption so to all my Dominates out there, both male and female, do you believe giving oral is an act of submission?
I’d really appreciate if you would take the time to answer this question.
It’s all about what is going on in your heads. For a lot of people (male and female), giving pleasure — especially with the mouth is tightly coupled to a feeling of subservience. But that’s not true for everyone, and even things that are a little subby can echo with feelings of dominance if done in the proper setting and with the proper attitude.
So, it depends on you and your partner(s). There is absolutely no One True Way to have a BDSM relationship (or any other relationship).